We really need to understand the person we love. If our love is just a willingness to have, it is not love. If we only think about ourselves, if we only know our own natural needs and ignore the needs of others, we can not love. We have studied in depth in order to see and understand the needs, aspirations, and suffering of a loved one. This is the foundation of true love. You could not help but to love others when you really understand it.
From time to time, sit close to someone you love, clasp hands, and asked, "Honey, did I quite understand you? Or, Do I make you suffer? Say so I could learn to love properly. I do not want to make you suffer, and if I apply it, because ignorance of, say, so I can love you well, so you can be happy ". If you say this in a voice that had the tone of openness and understanding your true, then someone else might be crying. That is a good sign, because it means understanding has opened the door and everything will become possible again.
Perhaps a father does not have the time or not brave enough to ask such questions to his son. The love between them is not entirely as it should. We need the courage to ask these questions, but if we do not ask, the more we love him (with ego and attachment), the more we destroy those we love. True love requires a sense, our loved ones will definitely excited.
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